Showing posts with label Homophobia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Homophobia. Show all posts

Monday, November 25, 2019

Homophobic Mom who Killed Gay Son and Set Him on Fire gets 25 Years

Tatiana Lozano Pereira of Brazil was sentenced to 25 years in prison for killing and burning her gay son Itaberli Lozano.  In 2017, Pereira claimed that her son ran away and came back to kill her. She claimed that she killed him with a knife out of self defense. The authorities did not buy her story. It was discovered that she had hired local boys/men to severely beat her son after luring him home with promises of reconciliation between the two.  The boys/men revealed the details of what really happened to the police. 

Pereira then stabbed her son to death and set him on fire after the men refused to kill him. Her husband then helped dispose of the charred remains. Young Itaberli Lozano has posted things on Facebook detailing the abuse he received from his mother and denounced her homophobia.  You can read more here: https://www.sacerdotus.com/2017/01/mom-stabs-sets-son-on-fire-for-being-gay.html.

A jury of her peers agreed to a 25 years and eight months prison sentence for her crimes. Two others charged with the plot,  Victor Roberto da Silva and Miller da Silva Barissa were sentenced to 21 years and eight months. Lozano's stepfather and husband of Pereira was charged with the concealing of a deceased body, but his trial is being rescheduled.  The uncle of Itaberli came to the defense of his nephew saying that his nephew had a job, was polite and never quarreled with anyone. He added that his only problem was his mother who did not accept him as a gay male.  The parties sentenced all plan to appeal their sentences. 

The news of the killing of this young man was heartbreaking. How can a mother kill her own son just because he is gay? To me, the sentence is too little. She should have been sentenced to life.  As a Catholic, I naturally disagree with the homosexual lifestyle; however, this does not mean that I or the Church wants gay people to be beaten or killed. This goes against God, the Church and humanity! We are all sinners. No one is perfect. Gay people are human and deserve our love and respect despite our disagreements.

I cannot imagine the horrors this beautiful teenage baby boy faced. To be beaten up by boys your own mom hired or by men hired to kill him is just evil. Moreover, for a mom to stab and set her own son on fire is sickening and evil. To think that this boy went home and saw his mom cheering on as the guys beat him and then calling for his death only to do it herself.  It is just horrendous and saddening. Moreover, we do not know for sure if he was dead when he was set ablaze. Can you imagine being in his position watching your own mom stab you?  It gets me sick to my stomach.   

If you are gay and are reading this. Do not be afraid if your family attacks you. Go and seek help from the police, teachers or clergy. You do not have to be a victim of abuse of any kind.


May young Itaberli Lozano through the mercy of God, rest in peace.


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Source:

https://riotimesonline.com/brazil-news/sao-paulo/mother-who-killed-homosexual-son-sentenced-to-25-years-imprisonment-in-sp/

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/29/being-gay-itaberli-lozano-mother-sentenced-killing-stabbing-own-son-hired-hitmen-brazil/

https://nypost.com/2019/12/01/brazilian-woman-who-killed-son-for-being-gay-gets-25-years-in-prison/

https://www.out.com/crime/2019/11/29/brazilian-woman-sentenced-25-years-killing-gay-son

Saturday, July 13, 2019

Hate & Unfairness at The Fight on The Fence Facebook Group

I run into many crazy people on and offline.  Because of this, I think it is necessary that I post warnings to my followers so that they will not have to face the same crazy people.  In this post, I will detail my experience with a Facebook group a young Greek man added me to.

The group claims to be about discussions regarding theism and atheism. However, most of the content is hateful against religious people.  Administrations do not follow their own rules and side with trolls. The group is a cesspool of trollish behavior and bigotry against Christians.  They even targeted gay members with homophobia.

Avoid and report this group https://www.facebook.com/groups/TFoTF to Facebook.  Facebook will remove it when it gets enough reports regarding its content.

I was added to it by young Greek Orthodox amateur apologist George Argyris a few months ago and did not become active in it until recently. When I posted, accounts which claimed to be atheists attacked me. I ignored it and reported abuse to admins. Some were deleted, others not.

Last week, someone accused me of turning off comments. I defended myself with civility and was met with more attacks. One member named Brian Ballard began to threaten me and cursed at me. I reported it to the admin. Jared replied and warned Brian.  Here is Brian Ballard






However, Jared then began to target me. He also accused me of turning off comments and claimed they broke the rules.

Moreover, I wrote that I would ask Facebook as to whether or not owners/admins can order members not use to turn off comments. He got upset and felt challenged and attacked me more. Eventually, he could not handle me and removed me from the group.

Here is the exchange. The rules are here. NO such rule exists. See the exchange here and the rules themselves.  Note that no rule regarding comments exists. Jared lied:













Here is a photo of the admin Jared M. Russell: https://www.facebook.com/jared.m.russell
Jared appears to be a White supremacist posting images of the Confederate flag which is considered by many today as a symbol of hate and racism.


https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1218542948167485&set=picfp.100000353741094&type=3&theater



We can see now why this individual is power-hungry. White supremacists are typically emotionally immature males who feel powerless and have a superiority complex.

He is now lying to the owner and others stating that I said I would not follow the rules.  Notice in the above exchange that I never stated that I will not follow the rules.  Jared lied.

An atheist friend in the group recently defended me and was also met with abuse and eventually removed as well. They even told him I was him!

Again, no admin took action against the bullies. Instead, they just booted my atheist friend just for asking for fairness. The evidence is clear. I did nothing wrong and was removed for no reason other than I emasculated an admin by questioning.

As a former atheist, I knew questioning is a principle of atheism. If an atheist cannot question, then atheism cannot exist. IF this group claims to allow the free speech of atheists and theists, then questioning is a must. A member cannot be booted just for questioning. It is clear that this group is just a playground for trolls. Also, note that Brian and others were never removed. They targeted me and got scot-free.

It is clear that this group is created by trolls and for trolls who hate Christians. Facebook needs to ban this group as it violates its hate speech policies.

Furthermore, I even messaged the owner of the group, Stacey Struckman.  She pretended to show concern and then made it clear that she would turn a blind eye to the situation and even wrote that she will "wash her hands."  She, in turn, blocked me. This demonstrates her lack of moral compass and lack of fairness.  Stacey has no interest in being objective or honest. She lied and accepted lies told to her as truth.  It seems to me that she may be mentally abused as well. When I tagged her with the evidence, she was concerned that her husband would see her name tagged on another male's account. This is extremely odd and indicative of someone in an unhealthy, controlling and abusive behavior.  We must pray for her and contact the police to do a wellness check on her.


Here is her photo followed by the exchange I had with her: https://www.facebook.com/stacey.struckman

























Lastly, I contacted another admin named Ajunte Burns who is African American and claims to be a Christian apologist. I was hoping he would be honest and fair, but he too failed in those areas. Like Stacey, he sided with the lying trolls and had no interest in being fair. He claims a vote was taken and the admins declared that they do not want me in the group. Well duh, this was my point. The admins are biased and unfair to Christians.  I did not need a vote to know this. That was my main concern, to begin with.

However, instead of siding with honesty and truth, Ajunte simply accepted the majority and did not protest it.  A real Christian does not follow the majority when they are in the wrong.  Like Dr. King, who was African American, a Christian challenges the majority when they are in the wrong. As Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI stated, "Truth is not determined by a majority vote."















Here is Ajunte Burns and our exchange:
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100010006955047





Again, I warn all theists and atheists to avoid this group on Facebook and report it. It violates Facebook's policies and simply exists to harass and abuse Christians.


Facebook is clear on what it considers hate. This group and its members are violating this policy, see:

11. Hate Speech
Policy Rationale
We do not allow hate speech on Facebook because it creates an environment of intimidation and exclusion and in some cases may promote real-world violence.
We define hate speech as a direct attack on people based on what we call protected characteristics — race, ethnicity, national origin, religious affiliation, sexual orientation, caste, sex, gender, gender identity, and serious disease or disability. We also provide some protections for immigration status. We define attack as violent or dehumanizing speech, statements of inferiority, or calls for exclusion or segregation. We separate attacks into three tiers of severity, as described below.
Sometimes people share content containing someone else’s hate speech for the purpose of raising awareness or educating others. In some cases, words or terms that might otherwise violate our standards are used self-referentially or in an empowering way. People sometimes express contempt in the context of a romantic break-up. Other times, they use gender-exclusive language to control membership in a health or positive support group, such as a breastfeeding group for women only. In all of these cases, we allow the content but expect people to clearly indicate their intent, which helps us better understand why they shared it. Where the intention is unclear, we may remove the content.
We allow humor and social commentary related to these topics. In addition, we believe that people are more responsible when they share this kind of commentary using their authentic identity.
Click here to read our Hard Questions Blog and learn more about our approach to hate speech.

Do not post:
Tier 1 attacks, which target a person or group of people who share one of the above-listed characteristics or immigration status (including all subsets except those described as having carried out violent crimes or sexual offenses), where attack is defined as
Any violent speech or support in written or visual form
Dehumanizing speech such as reference or comparison to:
Insects
Animals that are culturally perceived as intellectually or physically inferior
Filth, bacteria, disease and feces
Sexual predator
Subhumanity
Violent and sexual criminals
Other criminals (including but not limited to “thieves,” “bank robbers,” or saying “all [protected characteristic or quasi-protected characteristic] are ‘criminals’”)
Mocking the concept, events or victims of hate crimes even if no real person is depicted in an image
Designated dehumanizing comparisons in both written and visual form
Tier 2 attacks, which target a person or group of people who share any of the above-listed characteristics, where attack is defined as
Statements of inferiority or an image implying a person's or a group's physical, mental, or moral deficiency
Physical (including but not limited to “deformed,” “undeveloped,” “hideous,” “ugly”)
Mental (including but not limited to “retarded,” “cretin,” “low IQ,” “stupid,” “idiot”)
Moral (including but not limited to “slutty,” “fraud,” “cheap,” “free riders”)
Expressions of contempt or their visual equivalent, including (but not limited to)
"I hate"
"I don't like"
"X are the worst"
Expressions of disgust or their visual equivalent, including (but not limited to)
"Gross"
"Vile"
"Disgusting"
Cursing at a person or group of people who share protected characteristics
Tier 3 attacks, which are calls to exclude or segregate a person or group of people based on the above-listed characteristics, where exclusion is defined as:
Explicit Exclusion which includes but is not limited to "expel" or "not allowed".
Political Exclusion defined as denial of right to political participation.
Economic Exclusion defined as denial of access to economic entitlements and limiting participation in the labour market,
Social Exclusion defined as including but not limited to denial of opportunity to gain access to spaces (incl. online) and social services.
We do allow criticism of immigration policies and arguments for restricting those policies.
Content that describes or negatively targets people with slurs, where slurs are defined as words commonly used as insulting labels for the above-listed characteristics.
https://www.facebook.com/communitystandards/hate_speech

Wednesday, June 6, 2018

Victim of Assault, Gay Teacher Brandon Soriano: 'Homophobia is Real'

It is June. During this month, while the Catholic Church celebrates the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Body and Blood of Christ, others celebrate the National Puerto Rican day parade and Gay Pride. It is supposed to be a time of summer fun as the days get warmer and many have months off to enjoy it. However, one young man has been forced to start this time on bad terms.

Brandon Soriano, a 25-year-old elementary school teacher was brutally assaulted after leaving Queens Pride. In New York, each borough has a set day to celebrate Gay Pride. Queens starts it off, then Brooklyn, Staten Island, The Bronx with Manhattan ending it all with the much larger Gay Pride parade. Many LGBTQ and others participate in each event in a show of pride and solidarity.

Despite many advances made on how society sees and treats the LGBTQ community in recent years, some hate still remains. Soriano was enjoying his day at Queens pride and left after it was over. He was going to pick up some food before going to his apartment when two people yelled anti-gay slurs and brutally beat him up.  He was left unconscious on the sidewalk with a busted lip and very large bruises on his head and face. 

The attack was unprovoked, according to Soriano who said it occurred at around 10 at night on 37th Avenue and 84th Street in the Jackson Heights section of Queens. Soriano is hoping the perpetrators are caught. He says that if he sees them again that he will cross the street to avoid them. The attack has left him uneasy. He says that "Homophobia is real and it's annoying." The NYPD Hate Crime Task Force is current investigating the incident and is asking the public for any information that may lead to arrests.

As a Catholic, I disagree wholeheartedly with the LGBTQ lifestyle; however, this does not mean that I or any Catholic has justification to hate the LGBTQ. We are called to love our neighbors as ourselves (Mark 12:31). Not all neighbors will be Catholic. Jesus did not specify and left it in a general sense.
Any Catholic or anyone who claims to love God and hates gays, or assaults them physically does not love God at all.  He or she is defying God's will to love one another. We can disagree with each other, but we must never hate one another. This is just not God's way.  Moreover, the Catechism of the Catholic Church says it clearly:

2358 The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God's will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord's Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.

As it says, "They must be ACCEPTED with RESPECT, COMPASSION, and SENSITIVITY.  Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided."  Calling them f*gs, sodomites or any derogatory term is uncharitable and a sin against our neighbor which offends God and our neighbor. Moreover, assaulting a homosexual or anyone is never justified, unless in the case of self-defense of course (which is rare). I have many gay friends and it pains me to learn that this young man was attacked for no reason other than because he is gay. This could have been any one of my friends.  Let us pray for one another and protect one another. Let us sow the seeds of love in everyone we encounter. Despite our differences and alternate views, we are all children of God.  If you are a victim of hate, please report it to the authorities and do not keep the incident quiet. This will empower those with hateful hearts.   

If you have any information on this case, contact the NYPD: https://www1.nyc.gov/site/nypd/services/law-enforcement/hate-crimes.page    



Source:

http://newyork.cbslocal.com/2018/06/04/queens-pride-parade-hate-crime/

Thursday, November 9, 2017

Giovanni Melton, 14 Killed by Dad for being Gay

A recent Pew Research Center survey showed that 4 in 10 gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people are rejected by family or friends. This is a sad statistic. However, this news I am about to share shows how bad this rejection can be.

Giovanni Melton, just 14 years old was killed by his own father for being gay, according to his foster mother.  Wendell Melton, 53 was upset that his son was gay. Apparently, Melton senior caught his son with his boyfriend and snapped.  He pointed a gun and him and shot him.  Giovanni was rushed to St. Rose Dominican Hospital where he succumbed to the gun injuries.

Giovanni Melton was allegedly abused physically, emotionally and spiritually according to his foster mother.

This news is tragic but happens far too often. I have gay friends who were kicked out of their homes after their strict Pentecostal families could not handle the news of having gay kids. We must pray for all people, especially these LGBTQ kids who are abandoned and often killed.

Our Catholic faith calls us to love others as ourselves. While we must condemn the LGBTQ lifestyle, we must also love the sinner.  We are sinners as well.
The Catechism of the Catholic Church makes it clear:

2358 The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God's will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord's Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.


May Giovanni Melton rest in peace. He was a young baby boy gone too soon!




Source:

http://nypost.com/2017/11/06/dad-accused-of-murder-would-rather-have-a-dead-son-than-a-gay-son/

http://thegrio.com/2017/11/09/giovanni-melton-father-gay-son/

https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/nevada-father-murdered-son-being-gay-former-foster-mom-claims-n817906

http://www.fox8live.com/story/36779458/father-accused-of-killing-son-for-being-gay

http://abc13.com/man-accused-of-killing-teen-son-because-he-was-gay-/2612700/

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5056515/Nevada-father-killed-son-gay.html

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/father-allegedly-shot-killed-son-being-gay-killed-murder-teenager-nevada-wendell-melton-a8041886.html



Wednesday, January 18, 2017

Mom Stabs & Sets Son on Fire for being Gay

A bond between a mother and child is probably the most sacred human union possible. The bond begins from within a mother's womb at conception. However, this bond is not always perfect due to fallen human nature.

A mother, Tatiana Lozano Pereira in Sao Paolo, Brazil has confessed to killing her oldest son. Itaberli Lozano's charred remains were found January 7 in a field in Cravinhos. He has been missing since late December, according to the boy's grandmother.

Tatiana Pereira claims that she killed her son because he was gay. She accuses him of bringing drugs and men into a home they shared. Pereira told the police that on December 27, there was a fight between her and Itaberli. He ran away and then came back two days later. She claims that she was upset because he threatened to kill her and took a knife and killed him in self-defense. Afterwards, she says her husband helped dispose of the body of her son. Police investigating the case did not buy her story, finding holes in it. They learned via Itaberli's Facebook that his mom had hired boys to beat him up. He posted his injuries on social media. The police questioned these boys and they revealed more details about what really happened.







Itaberli Lozano was lured home by his mother in an attempt to reconcile. There, she had two men ages 18 and 19 waiting to attack Lozano. They beat him up to teach him a "lesson" and she requested that they finish him off. However, they refused. Upon doing so, Itaberli's mom took a kitchen knife and stabbed the boy. They took the boy to a field and set him ablaze leaving only charred remains of the photogenic young man.




The boy's uncle denounced his sister and defended the honor of the boy saying he did no drugs and was a good kid. Itaberli was known as a polite kid who never quarreled with anyone and had a job.

This news is heartbreaking. How can a mother kill her own son just because he is gay? As a Catholic, I naturally disagree with the homosexual lifestyle; however, this does not mean that I or the Church wants gay people to be beaten or killed. This goes against God, the Church and humanity! We are all sinners. No one is perfect. Gay people are human and deserve our love and respect despite our disagreements. I cannot imagine the horrors this beautiful teenage boy faced. To be beaten up by boys your own mom hired or by men hired to kill him is just evil. Moreover, for a mom to stab and set her own son on fire is sickening and evil.



If you are gay and are reading this. Do not be afraid if your family attacks you. Go and seek help from the police, teachers or clergy. You do not have to be a victim of abuse of any kind.

May young Itaberli Lozano through the mercy of God, rest in peace.




Update:  https://www.sacerdotus.com/2019/11/homophobic-mom-who-killed-gay-son-and.html







Source:

http://www.inquisitr.com/3893099/itaberli-lozano-stabbed-to-death-by-mother-for-being-gay/

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4132656/Brazilian-mother-stabs-17-year-old-son-death.html

http://www.lgbtqnation.com/2017/01/mother-stabbed-gay-son-death-brutal-murder/

http://www.foxnews.com/world/2017/01/16/report-mother-stabbed-her-teenage-son-to-death-because-was-gay.html

http://i1os.com/ITABERLI_LOZANO-%C3%89_MORTO_PELA_SUA_PR%C3%93PRIA_M%C3%83E_E_CARBONIZADO-M%C3%83E_MATA_FILHO_A_FACADAS/V7M2mX72gds.video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LEsyDlNbV3o

http://cintalagu.net/yt/LEsyDlNbV3o/me-mata-filho-e-queima-corpo-por-no.html



Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer 50th



"You know Dasher and Dancer, and Prancer and Vixen,
Comet and Cupid, and Donner and Blitzen,
But do you recall, the most famous reindeer of all?

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer
Had a very shiny nose,
And if you ever saw it,
You could even say it glows.

All of the other reindeer
Used to laugh and call him names;
They never let poor Rudolph
Join in any reindeer games.

Then one foggy Christmas Eve,
Santa came to say:
"Rudolph with your nose so bright,
Won’t you guide my sleigh tonight?"
Then how the reindeer loved him
As they shouted out with glee,
"Rudolph the red-nosed Reindeer,
You’ll go down in history."

If you don't know these lyrics, then you were probably living under a rock for the past 50 years.  This song is about the famous red-nosed reindeer which many of us grew up learning about from books, TV or in classrooms.   It originated in 1939 authored by Robert L. May in a booklet. The story of Rudolph entails a young reindeer who was born "different."  He had the body of a young buck, but something on his face was quite out of the ordinary. Instead of a black nose, he had a red one which glowed.

While just a simple story, it conveys a powerful message of accepting differences. Rudolph was mocked by his peers for his unusual nose. This story highlights the prejudices that plaque humanity. We don't trust people who are different from us many times.  According to a 2005 study by Arizona State University, we all are hard-wired to exhibit prejudice. This prejudice allegedly aided our ancestors with survival as evolution took its course.

Our brains work with heuristics, or techniques we develop based on experience in order to help solve
problems or make sense of things around us. The brain gets conditioned to adopt these heuristics and many times makes poor decisions based on them. This is called Representativeness Heuristics.  We judge "like unto like" as being the logical course when in fact many times it isn't. The "Linda Story or Problem" is a famous example of this which is used in both psychology and philosophy courses to show how logical and rational thinking truly works as opposed to relying on representativeness heuristics in order to make decisions or come to conclusions.

In philosophy, it is called the Conjunction Fallacy.  "If it quacks like a duck, it is a duck" does not always follow logically.  It can be a sound effect or a speaker that is projecting the sound of a duck. Naturally, our minds will recall the representativeness heuristic of the creature we call "duck" which we associate with "quacking."  In a funny twist, some atheist posers on Twitter and on some silly blogs fall into the representativeness heuristic in attempting to link the identity of a high school teenage with me simply because of the "chi rho" symbol and other things that may be related to me or my pseudonym "Sacerdotus."  This shows that they do not think logically.

The story of Rudolph the red nose reindeer is no different.  Rudolph's parents, peers all judge him as strange because a nose is not supposed to be red. They rely on the typicality of the feature we call nose to generalize it as the norm. Anything that is atypical to that norm is considered "strange" or "abnormal."  Because of this, poor Rudolph feels left out.  He is bullied and harassed just for having this red glowing nose. How many of us are bullied and harassed for being different?  We make fun of others because of their skin color, height, weight, religion, body shape, bodily features, sexual preference etc. This is a sign that humanity is still immature and must work to get past prejudice and relying on heuristics.

Rudolph with his bright red nose has to work harder in order to "fit in." He is a "misfit" along with Hermes the elf. Santa Claus finds use for Rudolph by relying on the light to guide his sleigh during a bad winter, perhaps a polar vortex!  The story reminds us that we all are different.  We are not identical nor clones. Each one of us has different things to offer this world. No one should be made to feel inferior or "strange." Every human life has intrinsic value that no one can take away.

We must not judge anyone based on looks or what may be apparent; instead, we must look at them as God sees them (1 Samuel 16:7).

Happy anniversary to Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer!  Thanks for the memories and for giving us such great wisdom in the fact that there is beauty and utility in differences.  









Source:

http://www.cbsnews.com/news/rudolph-the-red-nosed-reindeer-celebrates-50th-anniversary/

http://www.philosophical-investigations.org/The_Linda_Problem

http://psychcentral.com/encyclopedia/2009/representativeness-heuristic/

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/05/050525105357.htm

http://www.asu.edu/news/research/prejudicestudy_053105.htm

 

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Sergio Urrego

This news is so heart breaking that it is difficult to put it into words...

Sergio David Urrego was a young Colombian 16 year old who had many aspirations in life.  He wanted to study English in Australia and environmental engineering. However, all this changed when a teacher at Gimnasio Castillo Campestre school, a Catholic school in the capital of Colombia, Bogota found a photo of Urrego kissing another boy (his partner) on his cell phone. Apparently he and the other boy were sent to the school's ppsychologistfor an evaluation. The two boys were together for a month and a half, but this new situation forced Urrego's partner to tell his parents and they removed him from the school in an apparent move to keep both boys apart.

Because of the discovery of the photos on Sergio's phone, the school did not give his family his academic transcripts and prevented him from transferring to another school.  He was allegedly made to visit the psychologist regularly and was even suspended and accused of sexual harassment.  According to reports, he was also called an atheist and anarchist by school officials who saw him as mentally disturbed.  Like any typical teenager, Sergio took to Facebook to vent and posted a graphic with the words, 'MY sexuality is not my sin, it's my own paradise.'

He then posted on August 4, 2014 his last post:

'Goodbye cruel world
I'm leaving you today
Goodbye
Goodbye
Goodbye
Goodbye all you people
There's nothing you can say
To make me change
My mind
Goodbye.'


This message would follow his death.  Sergio David Urrego on August 4, 2014 would go to the roof of a shopping center and jump to his death.  He died three hours at the hospital.

The story is indeed tragic and depressing.  A young man decided to end it all after being allegedly harassed at school and apparently losing contact with his lover. I am not sure what really happened and am merely relying on news reports. However, it is clear something pushed this young man to the edge.  If indeed school employees at this Catholic school behaved this way, then it is truly sickening. It is a slap to the face of Christ.  There is no reason to harass a young boy to the point of him choosing to end his life because it was too much to bear.

The bullying of LGBT youth is a big problem throughout the world. Bullying happens to everyone, but it seems to be more frequent against youth who identify as LGBT.  They are seen as "strange" or "wierd" by their peers.  Others fear they will be "hit on" by these LGBT youth because they are obviously attracted to their same sex. LGBT youth many times feel no support and decide to commit suicide because the situaion seems hopeless.  In many cases, these young kids are closeted and revealing to their families their attraction may worsen the situation.

We all must address bullying in general, not just against LGBT youth. In 2014, no one should be harassed, mocked or made to feel as a pariah by others.  They should be able to attend school in a comfortable environment, make friends and enjoy their youth without becoming the punching bag of others. Kids can be mean to each other and it gets worse with each advancing generation.  More needs to be done to educate students on the harm bullying does. Students who are being bullied must be supported.  Their bullies must be punished and their parents must be notified immediately.  We should not have to hear of these stories of young kids killing themselves because of harassment.

Many support groups on Facebook have appeared honoring Sergio: https://www.facebook.com/search/more/?q=Sergio+Urrego&init=public  

While I disagree with the lifestyle young Sergio lived, he was still a human being made in God's image and deserved to be loved and respected by school officials and others. May Sergio David Urrego rest in peace.

If you are or know someone who is being bullied, please tell your parents/guardians, school officials and the police. You do not have to be a victim or a doormat for any other person(s). There is hope and support, never choose to harm yourself . This does not remedy the situation and will allow the bully to continue his/her bad behavior with someone else.  
 

For help:

http://www.stopbullying.gov/at-risk/groups/lgbt/






Source:

http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/gay-columbia-teen-commits-suicide-after-persecution-school110914

http://www.advocate.com/world/2014/09/10/teens-suicide-highlights-struggle-lgbt-colombians

http://www.queerty.com/gay-colombian-teen-bullied-to-death-by-catholic-school-officials-20140912

http://www.glaad.org/blog/young-colombian-man-commits-suicide-after-relationship-uncovered-school

http://www.eltiempo.com/estilo-de-vida/salud/suicidio-estudiante-sergio-urrego-recomendaciones-para-evitar-matoneo-por-ser-gay/14503355

http://www.towleroad.com/2014/09/colombian-teen-commits-suicide-after-alleged-harassment-from-catholic-school-administrators.html

https://www.facebook.com/sergiodavidurrego1?ref=br_rs&fref=browse_search


Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Gays Attacked in New York City

Recently, for the past month or so, gay men have been targeted in New York City.  One gay man, Mark Carson was shot to death as he walked with a partner near the Stonewall inn, the spot where the Gay rights movement began.  Others have been beaten severely after being verbally abused by being called homosexual derogatory terms.  The incidents and their timing are of concern to city officials, gay rights leaders and all New Yorkers including myself.

This is extremely disturbing to hear.  I am not in favor of the Homosexual lifestyle nor am I for Gay rights in regards to marriage and adoption; however, I am for the Homosexual person.  I respect and love the individual as I would anyone else of any gender, race or religious persuasion.  Regardless of how we live our lives, we all deserve to live them peacefully and without hate.

Unfortunately, many gays are attacked or abused on streets and elsewhere and these incidents are
not reported.  The same occurs with women who are sexually harassed.  This has to stop.  Any incident that makes one feel uncomfortable or is a clear violation of the law must be reported in detail to the police.  There is nothing anyone should fear because the law is on their side.

Any person who attacks gay people because they are gay is full of anger and needs psychological and spiritual healing.  Moreover, if this person is hating based on religious ideas, then this person must be made aware that God is not about hate.  God is love.  God hates our sins and the stupid things we do that degrade our human dignity; however, He loves each one of us unconditionally.  Christ on the Cross proves this.  As Catholics, our lifestyle is to love others in Christ, this includes gay people.


We do not know the details of each attack, but must let investigators do their job and not jump to conclusions.  These attacks can be the result of "Gay panic."  This is a term psychologists use when heterosexual men are confronted by gay men in a flirtatious or sexual manner and panic.

This panic can result in aggression because the heterosexual male feels that the gay male overstepped his boundaries and disrespected his masculinity.  Two cases of this comes to mind.  Years ago, on the "Jenny Jones" show, a gay man came on the show to reveal a crush he had on a heterosexual male.  The heterosexual male was brought on the show with the news that "someone" had a crush on him.

Believing it to be a female, he gladly and excitedly participated.  However, when the revelation was made that the crush was another male, this heterosexual male on the show seemed to take it in good stride, but looks can be deceiving.  After the show, he killed the homosexual man claiming he was embarrassed on nation television and made out to look like if he was gay.  Read more on it here: http://www.findadeath.com/Deceased/a/scottamedure/scott_amedure.htm

The other case was in Puerto Rico where a heterosexual Puerto Rican picked up a prostitute he believed to be a woman.  When the prostitute revealed himself to be a 19 year old transsexual, the heterosexual man killed him, decapitated him and set his remains on fire in an apparent rage.  You can read more here:  http://southfloridagaynews.com/articles/puerto-rican-pleads-guilty-in-decapitation-of-gay-teen/101172

In any case, violence is not the answer.  Heterosexual men must realize that sometimes they do not attract only females.  Today's men's fashion have clothing that are skin tight and will reveal curves and bumps that will most likely attract gay men.  Heterosexual males must realize this.  Modesty is important.  Gay men must also respect the fact that not every good looking guy can be approached and flirted with.  Some heterosexual men who are mature will most likely smile and say they are not gay and not make a big deal, others may not be so peaceful.        

I pray that this wave of attacks ceases and that all peoples gay or not can walk the streets of New York or any place and not feel as if they will be a victim of hate or violence.








Source:

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/reports-anti-gay-attacks-nyc-19228655#.UZ8QGqLqjBo
http://news.msn.com/crime-justice/2-more-reports-of-anti-gay-attacks-in-new-york-city
http://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/Anti-Gay-Hate-Crime-SoHo-Broadway-Attack-208337881.html
http://www.gayexpress.co.nz/2013/05/new-york-city-a-rise-in-horrific-anti-gay-attacks-culminates-in-murder/ 

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Archbishop Vindenzo Paglia Says Vatican Should Do More To Support Gay Couples



I ran across an article from the Huffington Post claiming that Archbishop Paglia stated that the Vatican must do more to support gay couples.  The article seemed fishy as I read it.  It seems the media is twisting the Archbishop's words or intention and making it seem as if the Vatican is lending validity to gay couples.  I will investigate the sources well in order to confirm the Archbishop's words.  

The Catholic Church already speaks out against violence brought upon anyone.  We need not focus solely on gay couples.  If we do this, then we are giving validity to that unnatural union.  The Church must be clear that homosexual unions or any live in situations is against God and morality.  They are an attack on marriage and chastity.

At the same time, the Church must do more to educate the people so that hate crimes would not occur.  While we may not agree with homosexual unions, this does not mean that we should sit back as we hear reports of homosexuals being beaten down or killed.  Like the Good Samaritan, we must stop and help the stranger even if that stranger does not share our same views.

Homosexuals are God's children as well and we must pray for them.  Any violence or hatred against them is an attack against God.  


Source:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/04/vatican-gay-couples-support-vindenzo-paglia_n_2618207.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000008





***UPDATE 2/6/2013***

As I suspected, Archbishop Paglia's words were misconstrued by the media.  The Archbishop was shocked at how the media "derailed" his comments to mean something he did not intend.  

Source:

http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/media-derailed-my-message-on-gay-civil-unions-vatican-prelate?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter

http://www.ncregister.com/daily-news/vatican-official-rejects-claims-that-he-endorsed-same-sex-unions?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter#When:2013-02-8 02:23:01

Thursday, December 27, 2012

L.G.B.T.

Let God Be There


"LGBT" is an acronym that lists the different categories of identities within the homosexual umbrella - Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual and Transsexual.  However, I want to transform it into something better.

LET GOD BE THERE.

I invite my brothers and sisters in the homosexual community to allow God to work in their lives.  Unfortunately, there is a bit of animosity between the LGBT community and what they are told God is.  The Old Testament does have harsh words regarding homosexual behavior.  Catholicism and other Christians speak out against homosexuality with such fervor that we are sometimes looked upon as bigots of hateful people.

In reality, we are neither   We are merely calling all to live in accordance with the natural law which is ordained by God.  The Catholic Church teaches that homosexual feelings are not a sin.  It is a sin when they are acted upon.  We still do not know what exactly causes some to be homosexuals.  Psychologists are stuck on the issue and feel it is a combination of nature and nurture.  No homosexual gene has been discovered and for the most part, a homosexual's brain is pretty much the same as a heterosexual's in regards to function.

In any event, homosexuals are not strange or evil people.  Yes, some may act a bit strange or may be different - we all are different.  This does not give anyone the right to bully them or attack them in any shape or form.  They are God's children.  Jesus died for them and opens His heart to them as He would anyone else.

We as believers in God must attack the behavior, not the people.   Homosexuality is not a sentence to hell, but can be an opportunity for grace.  The Catholic Church calls all to chastity, including married couples.  This may seem hard, but it is not impossible.  One of our greatest minds and saints, St. Augustine of Hippo said in his Confessions, "Lord make me chaste - but not yet!"

Our sexuality is important and is very powerful.  How else can human beings reproduce if they cannot even get close to a partner?  This is why sexual drive is so powerful in us.  It stems from the "be fruitful and multiply" command of God.  However, we should not be the sum of our sexuality.  Our sexual drive should not define us or control us.  This is why we have intellect, conscience, will and reason.

God is the designer of our bodies.  Only He knows how to work them and control them that is why we must pray to God to help us whenever we are tempted to do unchaste things.

Unfortunately, those homosexuals who "come out" and show no remorse for their actions become slaves to their sexuality.  They categorize each other as "tops, bottoms, versatiles."  They are no longer persons, but instruments of sexual gratification.  They categorize themselves as "fems, butch, twinks, bears."  They are no longer persons, but objects that one can pick and choose based on one's desires.

God intended more for homosexuals than what they do among themselves.  Unfortunately, sexual desires can be so strong that it can blind one from seeing God's plan and the dignity of oneself and of others.

It is not the end of the world.  Prayer can help.  Let God BThere my gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and transsexual brothers and sisters.  He will help you in life.  He will answer your question: Why am I this way?
He will help you to discover your true self so that you can take charge of your life and not be the sum of your sexuality.

Gay people are not "tops, bottoms, versatiles, fems, butch, twinks or bears;"  they are not objects for others to enjoy sexually.  They are human beings worthy of love, respect and dignity.  They are God's children who are in the same struggle as everyone else.

The LGBT might seem to be a lost sinful case, but that is not so:  "...where sin increased, grace increased all the more." Romans 5:20

Let God Be There!



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