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Every year, on the fourth Friday of November, a strange ritual unfolds across the Western world and increasingly beyond it. Long before sunrise, thousands of people line up outside big-box stores, clutching flyers and credit cards, eyes fixed on discounted televisions, air fryers, and designer handbags. When the doors finally open, something primal takes over. Grown adults shove, scream, trample, and occasionally come to blows over merchandise that, in many cases, they did not even know they wanted twenty-four hours earlier. The footage is familiar now: overturned shelves, security guards wrestling customers to the ground, a woman pepper-spraying her competitors for a discounted Xbox. This is Black Friday, the high holy day of consumerism, and it is one of the clearest demonstrations we have that modern humans, under the right conditions, can be reduced to something less than human.
What we witness on Black Friday is not mere shopping. It is hoarding behavior dressed up in athletic wear and rewarded with 40% off. Psychologists have long studied the impulse to accumulate resources beyond immediate need, an instinct rooted in our evolutionary past when famine was a real possibility. In ancestral environments, the individual who stockpiled calories when food was abundant had a survival advantage when it was scarce. That instinct never disappeared; it simply found new objects. Today the calorie is replaced by the flat-screen television, the dried meat by the instant pot, the cave by the walk-in closet. The trigger, however, remains the same: perceived scarcity and the fear of missing out.
Retailers understand this better than anyone. They engineer scarcity with deliberate precision. “Limited quantities,” “door-buster deals,” “while supplies last.” These phrases are not innocent marketing copy; they are psychological detonators. When the brain registers scarcity, the midbrain lights up in ways eerily similar to hunger or sexual arousal. Dopamine surges. Rational prefrontal cortex activity diminishes. The same neural circuitry that once drove a hunter-gatherer to gorge on ripe fruit before it rotted now drives a suburban parent to elbow a stranger for the last discounted Dyson vacuum. The difference is that the fruit would have sustained life. The vacuum will gather dust in a closet next to three older models.
This is where the animal comparison breaks down, and not in the way defenders of human dignity might hope. Wild animals hoard, yes, but almost always within the bounds of genuine need or reproductive strategy. A squirrel does not bury ten thousand acorns when it only requires two hundred for the winter. A wolf does not kill twenty caribou because they are on sale. Even the most extreme animal hoarders, like the pack rat or the labrador retriever with its toy obsession, operate within parameters set by biology. They stop when satiated or when the cost of acquisition outweighs the benefit. Humans on Black Friday do not stop. They buy because the price is low, because others are buying, because the clock is ticking, and because the alternative, walking away empty-handed, feels like existential defeat.
There is a cruelty in this that goes beyond bruised ribs and pepper-sprayed faces. When we behave this way, we voluntarily surrender the very thing that is supposed to separate us from the rest of the animal kingdom: our capacity for reflective self-mastery. Aristotle defined humans as the rational animal, the creature capable of logos, of deliberative reason directed toward the good. On Black Friday, reason is not merely absent; it is actively short-circuited by a multi-billion-dollar industry that has studied our neurological weak points more carefully than most of us have studied ourselves. We become bodies in motion, reacting rather than choosing, grasping rather than contemplating. In those moments, we are not exalted above the beasts. We are diminished beneath them.
The psychology of impulse buying has been dissected in laboratories and shopping malls alike. Researchers have identified a cluster of cognitive biases that converge on Black Friday like perfect storm conditions. The scarcity effect, first demonstrated by Worchel, Lee, and Adewole in 1975, showed that cookies placed in a jar with only two remaining were rated as more desirable than the same cookies in a jar with ten, even when participants knew the scarcity was artificial. The anchoring effect ensures that a “was $599, now $299” tag makes the lower price feel like found money rather than still hundreds of dollars spent. Loss aversion, the tendency to prefer avoiding losses over acquiring equivalent gains, transforms “not buying” into “losing the deal.” And social proof, the herd instinct Cialdini documented so powerfully, turns the sight of a crowded store into evidence that the discounted blender must be worth fighting for.
Taken together, these forces create a temporary psychosis. fMRI studies show that the prospect of a good deal activates the same mesolimbic reward pathway as cocaine. The difference, of course, is that cocaine is illegal and socially stigmatized, while Black Friday is celebrated with news helicopters and morning-show segments. We have normalized a day on which large segments of the population willingly enter a state of diminished rationality for the sake of possessing more manufactured objects.
Perhaps the deepest indignity is that most of the items purchased on Black Friday are not needed. The National Retail Federation reports that billions of dollars are spent annually on gifts people do not want and goods the buyers themselves will barely use. A 2019 study found that 40% of Black Friday electronics purchases were never removed from their boxes. Storage unit companies report a measurable spike in rentals every December as people run out of room for their bargains. We are not acquiring tools for living better; we are acquiring burdens. Yet the dopamine hit of acquisition is so powerful that we convince ourselves the transaction was a victory.
There is a spiritual dimension to this surrender that secular language struggles to capture. Many religious and philosophical traditions warn against the accumulation of possessions precisely because they scatter the self. Jesus’ admonition that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God is not primarily about economics; it is about attention. Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. On Black Friday, our treasure is a 65-inch OLED television marked down $800, and our heart follows it straight into the crush of bodies at the store entrance.
Buddhism speaks of tanha, the thirst that can never be quenched, the desire that perpetuates suffering. On Black Friday this thirst is not merely tolerated; it is cultivated, amplified, and rewarded with applause. We are told that buying more is the path to happiness, when every wisdom tradition worth its salt insists the opposite. The Stoics practiced voluntary discomfort to remind themselves that they were free from the tyranny of wanting. We practice voluntary discomfort by sleeping on concrete outside Best Buy to secure the right to want more.
Even children are not spared. Parents who would never dream of teaching their kids that happiness comes from material accumulation nevertheless drag them into the Black Friday chaos, often parking them in front of screens with YouTube toy unboxing videos that function as 21st-century propaganda. The message is clear: more stuff equals more joy. The child who learns this lesson early will spend a lifetime chasing a satisfaction that recedes with every purchase.
Defenders of Black Friday will argue that it is just commerce, that people are free to participate or not, that the economy benefits from the spending surge. These defenses miss the point. The issue is not that money changes hands; it is that human beings voluntarily allow themselves to be manipulated into states of animalistic desperation by corporations that profit from their temporary loss of dignity. Freedom without self-command is not freedom at all; it is the illusion of choice inside a very sophisticated cage.
There is a particularly American flavor to this ritual. The United States, founded in part on Puritan restraint and revolutionary simplicity, has become the global epicenter of consumptive excess. Black Friday did not begin in Sweden or Japan; it began here, and it spreads wherever American-style capitalism plants its flag. Other cultures have sales, of course, but few have elevated the day into a national spectacle of manufactured frenzy. In this sense, Black Friday is less a holiday than a revelation: when you strip away the thin veneer of civilizational restraint, what remains is not the noble savage but the panicked hoarder.
It would be comforting to believe that online shopping has tamed the beast, that clicking “add to cart” from the safety of home represents progress. It does not. Cyber Monday and the endless pre-Black Friday online deals have merely democratized the pathology. The same dopamine circuitry fires when the countdown timer hits zero on Amazon as it does when the store doors swing open at 5 a.m. The trampling has moved from the aisles to the checkout servers, but the psychology is unchanged.
Some will say that judging Black Friday shoppers is elitist, that many are simply trying to stretch limited budgets to provide Christmas for their families. This objection contains a grain of truth but ultimately collapses under examination. The average Black Friday shopper is not the poorest American; credit card data show middle-class households account for much of the spending spike. Moreover, the deepest discounts are rarely on necessities. You will not see people punching each other over canned goods or children’s coats. The violence and desperation center on luxury electronics, designer clothes, and toys marketed through saturation advertising. The family trying to make ends meet is not the primary actor here; the primary actor is the person who already owns three streaming devices but cannot resist a fourth at 60% off.
We should be clear about what is being lost. Every year on Black Friday, thousands of people trade their dignity for a temporarily lower price tag. They allow themselves to be filmed behaving like animals because the culture has convinced them that acquiring discounted merchandise is more important than appearing civilized. The rest of us watch the videos, shake our heads, and then quietly check the deals on our phones. We are all implicated.
Is there a way out? The standard prescriptions, buy nothing, support local, simplify your life, are true as far as they go, but they address symptoms more than causes. The deeper problem is a society that measures human worth by productivity and consumption, that confuses having with being, that has replaced citizenship with customership. As long as that worldview dominates, there will be a Black Friday, whether on the day after Thanksgiving or some newer, more efficient date.
The recovery of human dignity begins with the recovery of attention. It requires the courage to ask, before every purchase, whether this object will truly enrich my life or simply fill a momentary void the advertisers taught me to feel. It requires the discipline to tolerate the discomfort of walking away from a “deal,” to accept that missing out on a discount is not the same as missing out on happiness. Most of all, it requires the honesty to admit that the person shoving through the crowd on Black Friday morning is not some alien other; under the right conditions, it could be any of us.
Until we confront that truth, the footage will keep coming: another year, another stampede, another reminder that the distance between civilization and savagery is shorter than we like to believe, and that the path back is paved not with bargains but with the quiet, unglamorous choice to remain human when every incentive screams at us to do otherwise.
Sources (in order of relevance to arguments presented):
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- Worchel, Stephen, Jerry Lee, and Akanbi Adewole. “Effects of Supply and Demand on Ratings of Object Value.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1975.
- Baumeister, Roy F., and John Tierney. Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength. 2011.
- Twitchell, James B. Living It Up: America’s Love Affair with Luxury. 2002.
- Ariely, Dan. Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions. Revised edition, 2009.
- National Retail Federation annual Black Friday spending reports (2015-2024 aggregates).
- Walker, Rob. Buying In: The Secret Dialogue Between What We Buy and Who We Are. 2008.
- Kasser, Tim. The High Price of Materialism. 2002.
- Frank, Robert H. Luxury Fever: Why Money Fails to Satisfy in an Era of Excess. 1999.
- Schwartz, Barry. The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less. 2004.
