Memorial Day, observed on the last Monday in May, is a solemn federal holiday dedicated to honoring the men and women of the United States Armed Forces who died while serving their country. Originally known as Decoration Day, it emerged in the aftermath of the Civil War, which claimed approximately 620,000 lives. Communities across the nation began decorating the graves of fallen soldiers with flowers, wreaths, and flags to remember their sacrifices.
On May 5, 1868, General John A. Logan, commander-in-chief of the Grand Army of the Republic (an organization of Union veterans), issued General Order No. 11, formally establishing Decoration Day on May 30. The first major observance took place at Arlington National Cemetery, where thousands gathered to honor both Union and Confederate dead. Over time, the holiday expanded beyond the Civil War to commemorate those who died in all American conflicts—from World War I and II to Korea, Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan, and beyond. In 1971, Congress made it a federal holiday on its current date to create a three-day weekend.
On this day, we memorialize not abstract ideas of war, but real people—sons, daughters, husbands, wives, fathers, and mothers—who laid down their lives. We remember their courage, their willingness to face danger for the sake of others, and the profound cost of freedom and security. Flags fly at half-staff, taps is played, and moments of silence remind us that freedom is never free.
The Veterans We Must Not Forget
While Memorial Day specifically honors the deceased, it inevitably draws our thoughts to all veterans—those who returned home bearing physical and invisible wounds. Society often forgets them after the parades end. Many veterans struggle with PTSD, homelessness, inadequate healthcare, and a sense of isolation in a fast-paced, consumer-driven culture. We wave flags on holidays but sometimes fail to support the policies, funding, and community care that honor their ongoing service. True remembrance demands more than ceremonies; it calls for gratitude, advocacy, and active support for those who protected us.
A Personal Journey: From Opposition to Appreciation
In my early college days, I was firmly against soldiers, the Army, the Marines, and the military in general. I viewed them as instruments that caused violence and encouraged war. Influenced by idealistic pacifism and campus activism, I saw military force as inherently aggressive rather than defensive. It took years of maturity, study, and reflection for wisdom to temper that view. I came to understand that, in a fallen world, a strong defense is often necessary to preserve life, liberty, and justice.
The Bible itself acknowledges this reality. God commands angelic armies and has used military force for self-preservation. In Joshua 5:13-15, Joshua encounters the "commander of the army of the Lord" with a drawn sword—evidence of divine military order. Elisha's servant sees "horses and chariots of fire" surrounding them (2 Kings 6:17), protecting God's people. The Israelites repeatedly battled in self-defense under God's allowance, as in the conquest narratives or against oppressors like the Philistines and Assyrians. David declares in 1 Samuel 17:45 that he comes "in the name of the Lord of hosts, the God of the armies of Israel."
Catholic Church teaching aligns with this nuanced view through the Just War tradition, developed by St. Augustine and St. Thomas Aquinas and enshrined in the Catechism of the Catholic Church (nos. 2307-2317). War is never ideal, but legitimate defense can be a grave duty when grave harm is certain, all peaceful means fail, there is reasonable hope of success, and the response is proportionate. The Church obliges citizens and governments to work for the avoidance of war but affirms the right to self-defense.
Early Church Fathers wrestled with these tensions. While many, like Tertullian and Origen, expressed strong reservations about Christians in military service (emphasizing love of enemies and the Kingdom of God), the tradition evolved to recognize the legitimacy of defending the innocent. St. Augustine argued that peace is the goal, but force may sometimes be required to restrain evil. The Church has consistently taught a presumption for peace while allowing for just defense.
Personally, I would not choose to serve in any war unless there were no other way to protect my family and nation. I still long for a world without troops, weapons, or armies or need for them—a world of perfect harmony. Yet that remains wishful thinking. Humans are still primitive in many ways: tribal, fearful, and combative. Sin fractures our relationships, and evil forces exploit that brokenness. Until Christ returns to make all things new, prudent defense remains a sad necessity.
I now support our troops wholeheartedly. They stand in the gap so that civilians like me can debate, worship, and live in relative security. Their sacrifices remind us of the ultimate sacrifice of Our Lord Jesus Christ, who laid down His life for all.
A Prayer for Veterans and Peace
Lord God of Hosts,
We thank You for the men and women who have defended justice, protected the innocent, and sacrificed everything for our nation. Comfort the families of those who gave their lives. Heal the wounds—visible and invisible—of those who returned. Grant eternal rest to the fallen and strength to the living.
Convert the hearts of the violent and the war-makers. Inspire leaders to pursue peace with justice. Help us build a world where swords are beaten into plowshares, as the prophets foretold (Isaiah 2:4).
Through the intercession of St. Michael the Archangel and all warrior saints, grant us wisdom, courage, and true peace—the peace that surpasses all understanding. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
May we live each day worthy of their sacrifice, working tirelessly for a more just and peaceful world. God bless our veterans, living and deceased.
